DO YOU HATE MATH? I DID

hey hey.

Have you ever got a D or an E or even C for your Math?
I HAVE!

Seriously, I once HATED MATH so much.
During those times, I wished and prayed that I will never ever ever be involve in numbers.

AND YET. TODAY. IT'S THE EXACT OPPOSITE.
why?because I rather be involving in Math than reading the whole book.
haha.
But how did that happen?

Firstly, I am thankful to God and mama for introducing me to a superb Math tutor.
His name is En.Badri. Since then, he is my favourite teacher.
He taught me that in Math, you must understand the concept!
You cant just memorize the examples.
Because in exam, the numbers and rules will be the same. In fact! The question will be the same, but rather than finding "x", they'll change it to find "x" in terms of "y".

Secondly, PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT.
Once you have understand the concept, it will be fun to practice again and again.
Until some point, you will get addicted to it.
You will feel the most SATISFACTION AND PRIDE when you are able to answer a question that your peers found it hard and almost impossible to answer. haha.

I use to fail Add Math terribly when I was at High School.
So then, I started to ask myself. Do you want to get an E for your SPM?! of course NO.
SO, I invented a strategy. (cewahh."invented" gitooh)
So here's what I did:

I knew that the exam paper consisted of 3 parts.
And for every part, the examiner has allocated the sufficient amount of time that we should spend on on each part. Say, 40 min for part 1...45 min for part 2

So every morning, before I started studying other subjects, I will give myself the recommended time to answer  one section/part.

So, if this morning I have done part 1 for 40 mins..tomorrow I'm going to do part 2..n the day after I'm going to do part 3..
then after that, I will repeat the whole process..again and again for each morning before I started studying others.
The reason is simple, it helps me to keep the pace and to trained my brain to be focus..
Its a good start to a day as well.

DON'T worry if you cant answer any question. DON'T panic. And DON'T give up.
ONLY check and compare your answers after you have finished answering a section.

In Shaa Allah!
by the time SPM, you are all ready! :)


ps: I am not trying to be bajet, I am not so good in Math myself..still needs lots of help.
Just sharing my experience during my days of studying for SPM.

ALL THE BEST! Man jadda wajadda 

DOA. USAHA. TAWAKALLAH

Manusia tidak punya perasaan.

Aku bangkit lagi, dari jatuh..

Melihat screen pc..cuba membaca proposal yg diberikan..

Aku cuba memahami tapi alangkah kesalnya, mata ku pada screen, namun fikiran ku melayang ke angkasa..

Aku bingung, apakah ini..

Tiba-tiba lagu itu berkumandang,

Aku teringat suasana pada waktu aku mendengar lagu itu..

Aman dan damai, bahagia bergelak ketawa dengan sahabat andai..

oh indahnya..

ke mana perginya aku yg itu..

Sahabat aku katakan yg aku tidak mempunyai perasaan,

oh aku tidak pernah tersinggung dengan kata-katanya,

Sebaliknya, aku mengiyakan ..

aku mengakui, itulah aku...manusia yg "tidak punya perasaan"

Namun, bagaimanapun..aku tetap manusia..

Lalu, hari ini..aku tertanya lagi..mengapa aku begini..

bukankah aku sepatutnya manusia yg "tidak punya perasaan"

mengapa fikiran aku melayang tah ke mana..

Puas.

Puas aku memujuk hati...

"Hati, tolonglah panggil fikiran tuk kembali.."

katakan padanya, sudahlah..jangan kau merayau lagi..

Aku manusia tidak mempunyai perasaan..

Tapi hari ini Allah telah mengajar aku,

yg Aku adalah manusia juga..

Dia meniupkan perasaan..

Menguji kekuatan imanku..

Aku manusia "tidak punya perasaan"

oh ya RABBI! oh ya Rahman! oh ya Rahim! o ya Allah!

sungguh, aku telah sombong dengan Mu,

menidakkan apa yg telah Kau anugerahkan..

berpura2 untuk tidak menjadi manusia biasa..

kerana sungguh....aku sebenarnya manusia mempunyai perasaan...

yaAllah..kembalilah aku pada masa itu..

masa aku bersama sahabat ku..

semasa aku rasa tenteram dan damai..

Ampunilah aku Ya Allah..

Sekian..

Yang sangat mengasihiMu,

Dhamirah

(Manusia yg mempunyai perasaan)

Muslimah ?Next Door?"

As I was browsing through what I have wrote for these past couple of days, I realized that the name of my blog is "THE MUSLIMAH NEXT DOOR" and I wonder ..

Pergh "Muslimah" keeer aku niyh?

Well,  "Muslimah" means a Muslim women.
It doesn't mean you are  a Muslim woman that is very nice, alim, warak etc2.
So I guess, when I use the word "Muslimah", I was just referring to myself as a Muslim woman.
Because I am proud to be one! yeay!alhamduLilah.
So, don't be annoyed by the word Muslimah, cause I am not refering myself as a reeeeaally good Muslim woman. Because I don't think I deserves to be called "warak", although I wish for it most of the time! T.T

Then came "The Next Door",
Well, that supaya kita semua rasa close to each other..
you know, like your neighbour next door..
A person, who is not related to you by blood, but has to care for you, tanya2 khabar..tegur, bagi nasihat etc etc..
Someone who would like to share nice stories with you..
Someone who wants to share her ups and downs in life..
That someone is me..

So, that's how I came up we the idea of giving my blog's name, "The Muslimah Next Door"..Hooray!

Because we are only humans

Regret.

Have you ever regret something in your life? I'm sure you sure does.
We regret meeting sum1, we regret saying something, we regret doing somethg.

But...have your ever wonder that maybe just maybe, if you didn't make those mistakes you would not be where you are right now..You might be worse!

As for me,
I used to tell my friends that I regret that I used to be madly in love with I guess the man that does not deserves it! (because he's not my hubby ponnn)
But then, she told me.
"well, at least now you can learn from your mistakes"

Imagine, if your never did any mistakes in your life..would you ever going to know or learn which is right and which is wrong?

Ofcoz, the Quran has stated every rights and wrongs.
But I dont think every each of us would be rajin enough to read and understand every verse in the Quran to learn all the amar makhruf nahi munkar.

So, that's how we human learn.
That is from our own mistakes.
So the next time you feel very regret for those mistakes you made, just say Astargfirullahazim..seeks forgiveness from Allah swt, learn from your mistakes, taubat nasuha (promise NOT to repeat it again) and MOVE ON with life.

Do not ever being too regret and live in your past.

Because, once you have promised to Allah that you will never ever repeat the mistakes u made..you are clean from the sins you made..inShaaAllah..

“Katakanlah: ‘Hai hamba-hamba-Ku yang melampaui batas terhadap diri mereka sendiri, janganlan kamu berputus asa dari rahmat Allah. Sesungguhnya Allah mengampuni dosa-dosa semuanya. Sesungguhnya Dialah yang maha pengampun lagi Maha penyayang.” (Az-Zumar: 53)

Speechless

Something. That. Relates. To. My. Situation.

Something I could not express in words.

Go. Figure.

pffftttt

Bergantung pada yang tak mati

Aku tak taw apa definisi "kawan baik" pada korang.
Tapi pada aku, aku tak pernah ada a person yg mmg boleh aku panggil dialah kawan baik aku dari dulu..
Sebab pada aku,manusia bersifat pelupa and also bersifat "chipsmore" haha *kejap ada kejap xder*

However,
aku syukuuur sangat pada Allah swt sebab aku dikurniakan kawan-kawan yang baik-baik..

AlhamduLilah, bila aku gembira aku ada kawan untuk ketawa bersama.
dan bila aku sedih, aku ada kawan yg sudi mendengar segala rintihan,
bila aku susah, ada kawan yg sanggup membantu..

Walaupun,
mereka bukan orang yg sama,
mereka tidak akan sentiasa berada di sisi..
sebab aku faham, dalam hidup ni akan tiba satu masa kita terpaksa meninggalkan..
Betapa kasih dan cintanya kita pada seseorang itu , satu hari kita atau dia mesti pergi juga..

Ofcoz, org tu xkan pergi terus..
Dia akan sentiasa ada, tapi mungkin dh x serapat dulu..

Dah lumrah hidup,
stranger menjadi lover,
lover menjadi stranger,
kawan menjadi lawan,
kawan tetap kawan,
lawan tetap lawan..

Tapi cane pun, aku tahu yang aku kena sentiasa bersyukur sebab setiap manusia yang Allah hantarkan untuk kita tu ada reason, ilmu yang kita harus pandai cari dan belajar dari setiap org..
So that, bila diorg pergi kita taklah berendam air mata je.
Instead, kita redha dan bersyukur.

Ala, lagipun kenapa nk risau kalo teman sejak azali akan sentiasa ada sampai bila2...*wink2*  ^^

"Mmg kita tak boleh, selagi kita tak bergantung pada yang tak mati"-Syafiq,     Rokok dan Kopiah

Mak cik jual kopok kat MakJah

Semalamkan, eh..kelmarin...aku pi makan kat Mak Jah..(1 of the restaurants that was opened on new year eve) ..

So while I was waiting for the food I ordered, there was a mak cik that came to each table.
Ala, you know the mak cik yang selalu jual2 kopok tu..

Allah, teruh mixed feelings gak la time tu cause aku taw that my table is next!
So yeah, mak cik tu pon datang la kat meja aku..

makcik tu cam "nak kopok dik...?"

aku pun.."o baper sepekat makcik?"

"10 ringgit dik.." makcik tu reply..

dalam hati aku..*10 hinggit, mahal la gak sebenarnya.......tapi....tapi xpe, makcik ni pun dh tua, sanggup dia jalan from 1 table to another demi sesuap nasi tuk dia and anak2...wajib bagi aku sebagai umat Islam tolong saudara seIslam aku...x salah pun aku membelinya..apalah sangat 10 hinggat nk compare dengan duit yg aku dh bazir..ishish.."

So, selepas memikir semua tu dalam 1 saat..cewah..
aku pun membelinya..

"kopok ikan keli ke ikan biasa dik?"
"kopok ikan biasa lah makcik.."..huhu

Pas aku beli tu, seorang akak ni pun panggil dia..before tu makcik tu approached dia dulu tapi dia reject..

Aku tak tau la dia tetiba nak beli lepas nampak aku beli ke pe..
Tapi kalo lah betul, AlhamduLilah syukuuur sangat..
Mungkin Allah nk tunjuk, bila kita buat baik kat orang..orang lain pun akan mempunyai kesedaran untuk nak buat baik gak..


haha....ala tp mungkin gak akak tu mmg tetiba teringin nk kopok en..who knows...:)