TAKNAK pegi Australia! Not now.

"what ma?end of june?You are kidding. Right?"
                         "No, I'm not.. You will go to Australia."-Mama

AllahuAllah!
Aku tidak akan pernah lupa saat2 awal aku membuat keputusan untuk ke Australia.
Dah la time tu aku tak pernah berjauhan dengan keluarga!
Masak pun tak pernah.
Basuh baju pun tak pernah.
Menggosok sampai terbakar baju! Gagal sangat!

Tapi siapa sangka..
Rupa-rupanya Allah has a better plan for me..
Ofcoz, since the plane took off, air mata berjujuran tak tertahan.
Memikirkan tentang diri aku nanti yang akan keseorangan..
Boleh ke aku ni?
Kuat ke diri aku ni?

"Boleh jadi kamu menyukai sesuatu dan sebenarnya tidak baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu yang sebenarnya baik untukmu. Sesungguhnya Allah lebih mengetahui dan kamu tidak mengetahui"-Al-Baqarah:216

Memang benar, Allah itu maha Pengasih! Rupa-rupanya Dia dah stand by kan ramai hamba-hambaNya di Perth untuk menemani aku. Sahabat-sahabat itu yang telah mengesat air mata aku. Menggantikan air mata itu dengan senyuman. Mengajar aku memasak. Menggosok baju..

Memang benar, Allah itu maha Mengetahui. Dia tidak memberi aku ujian yang aku sendiri tak sanggup menghadapinya. Dia pasti akan menghantar hamba-hambaNya untuk menemani aku, mengharunginya sama-sama.

Memang benar, Allah itu maha Pemurah. Walau aku tak pandai masak, rezeki datang bercucuran. AlhamduLilah!...Ada yang datang melalui jemputan, dan ada juga yang datang ikhlas dari tangan hamba-hamba Mu yang baik hati..



Sekarang aku sedar, apabila kita membahagiakan ibubapa, Allah akan melipat gandakan kebahagiaan kita.
I've learned that happiness doesn't come from me, but from Allah.

Erk Baju kau..

Semalam, my friends and I went to Perth Royal Show.
Sambil-sambil kami berjalan, aku ada lah usha2 baju2 kat situ kalau2 ada yang reasonable.
Sambil usha, perhatian aku tersekat pada satu patung ni.
Baju yang patung tu pakai ala-ala rock and sangat menjolok mata.
Tapi whats more matter is how ugly that patung is!
E!..seriously, nightmare sangat kalau muka patung tu appear kat mimpi aku .

Tiba-tiba terlintas dalam fikiran aku..
Kenapa agaknya baju sebegini ditayangkan pada orang ramai dengan memakaikannya pada patung yg hodoh tu!

Firman Allah s.w.t. yang bermaksud: “Wahai Nabi, katakan kepada isteri-isterimu, anak-anak perempuanmu, dan isteri-isteri orang mukmin, ‘hendaklah mereka melabuhkan jilbab ke seluruh tubuh mereka. Yang demikian itu supaya mereka mudah dikenali sebagai wanita baik agar mereka tidak diganggu.’”

Maha suci Allah, sesungguhnya Dia lah yang lebih memahami makhluk ciptaanNya.

Sebenarnya sahabat, apa yang kita pakai juga melambangkan personality kita sendiri.

Baju yang rock (koyak sana sini) pastinya tidak akan dipakai oleh insan-insan yang malu kepada Allah.

Sudah menjadi nature of life, orang akan membuat first impression berdasarkan apa yang seseorang tu pakai.

Jadi, apabila diri anda diperlakukan tidak senonoh. Jangan salahkan masyarakat sekeliling. Instead, cermin diri dulu. Look at what you are wearing!

Ofcoz, some people may say.."alaaa...ada je minah yang bertudung lintup tp buat maksiat!"

Yes, memang ada sebab pakaian itu bukan satu-satunya senjata kepada iman seseorang.

Namun, ia adalah salah satu senjata iman seorang muslim.

Orang yang pakai tudung, menutup auratnya tidak semestinya solehah, tapi yang solehah pasti menutup auratnya.

Semoga kita dikenali sebagai wanita yang baik. InShaaAllah. 

awak nak dating!?

Aku masih ingat lagi lakan, satu hari tu aku bermimpi. Aku mimpi dia datang pada aku. Ofcoz aku cam eksaited lakan bila orang yg aku suka datang pada aku.Bukan selalu kot dapat peluang catu.

Pastu dia tanya "Dhamirah, boleh pinjam kereta?" 

"kereta?nak pergi mana dengan kereta?"-

                            -"Nak pergi dating"

booooooom..jatuh kedebek hatiku ke tanah!

YaAllah insan yang selalu aku selitkan dalam doa dah berpunya! yang paling menyakitkan hati is dia nak pergi DATING?whaaat?

Aku ingat dia Islamic.

"Nak pergi dating?!"

                        "ha ah.." jawab dia sambil senyum.

                     "tapi bukan dengan dia...mak n adik dia datang Perth, jadi saya nak bawak mak and adik dia    jalan2 perth ni. Saya nak bawak diorg pergi Kailis. Dia tak tahu pon sebab dia sekarang kat library 

                     study" sambung dia.

Ya Allah, subhanallah, Allahuakhbar! sungguh sweetnya mamat ni. Sungguh beruntunglah gadis pilihan dia tu.

"Ohhh...kalau catu pinjamlah keter tu.." sambil mengukir senyuman..

Sweet kan!?

Tapi tu mimpi jelah. Walaupun cam dalam mimpi tu obviously jejaka idaman aku minat org lain aku cam redha jelah. Kagum sangat dengan dia. 

Bila aku bangun aku cam, "Ya Allah...ada ke lelaki yang akan buat catu?"

"Kalau ada...alangkah untungnya jika aku perempuan itu,ameen"

Bagi aku, TU SWEET.

Bukan pergi dating dengan tuan punya badan.

Tapi dating ngan insan2 yang sangat berharga dan penting dalam hidup tuan punya badan

Bukankah dengan cara itu, kita akan lebih mengenali insan yg kita suka tu?

and and tak berdosa pun inShaaAllah.

ok, aku tau aku asyik berangan je. Siap sampai mimpi.

Tapi mimpi tu bukan aku yang atur kot!

Sorry kalau aku cam jiwang. 

tapi sejiwang aku, inShaaAllah aku tetap memilih and mengimpikan yang halal!

Sayang semua!

Kau Hadiah aku..

Ok aku rasa baik aku just straight to the point.

To me, and I'm sure to many of you perkahwinan itu ibarat HADIAH yang paling teristimewa dari Illahi.
Allah bagi hadiah kot!
Bayangkan it's like seorang raja memberi hadiah berlian kepada kita.Pergh!

So kalau hadiah,mesti kita expect benda tu it's a surprise!
Tak best la kalau tak surprise.
Bayangkan kalau mak kita beli perfume..pastu kita pinjam perfume tu macam lah perfume tu kita punya.
Sekali bila perfume tu nak habis, tetiba mak kita kata.."haa, kau amek jela perfume tu nak, mak hadiahkan"
Kita pun mesti cam happy la jugak tapi cam "takpelah perfume ni nak habis dh pun"(monolog dalaman)

Now ce try compare kalau dari awal-awal lagi mak kita bagi perfume tu as hadiah.
Dibungkusnya chantek2 dengan ribbon bagai.
Bukak2 je, WAH! Flora by Gucci wehh!

Sebenarnya di sini saya nak korang comparekan dengan sebuah perkahwinan juga.
Bayangkan kalau kita dah berboyfriend/girlfriend berkurun-kurun, pastu baru decide nak kawin mesti kita cam eksaited tapi mungkin tak se-eksaited kalau kita dah lama usha tetiba Allah kata "ok, he/she is yours"..
Sebabnya, kita dah lama dah ngan orang tu..so apalah sangat bezanya after kawin ..
Masa boyfren/girlfren pon dah puas kita lafaz "i lap u" bagai ...
bayangkan kalau after kawin baru orang yg dh lama kita sayang dalam diam tu kata "i love you"
pergh pergh pergh..
mesti rasa cam nak terbang+guling2 pun ada.


Sahabat, setiap manusia dah Allah sediakan hadiah yang sangat istimewa..
Kalau kita baik, bagus, cantek di mata Allah..cantek la hadiah tu....

"perempuan-perempuan yang jahat adalah untuk lelaki-lelaki yang jahat, dan lelaki-lelaki yang jahat untuk perempuan-perempuan yang jahat dan (sebaliknya) perempuan-perempuan yang baik untuk lelaki-lelaki yang baik, dan lelaki-lelaki yang baik untuk perempuan- perempuan yang baik"- Surah An-Nur:26

 Jadi kawan-kawan, I know you know that I know you want hadiah yang best jugak kan kan.
So apa yang penting sekarang is..baikkanlah diri supaya kita cantek di mata Allah..
Amal makruf nahi mungkar.
InShaaAllah, pasti hadiah yang indah untuk kita.

ps: Supaya kita menjadi hadiah yang terindah untuk "dia" juga....

Can't sleep

I am so sleepy, but I am keeping myself away from the bed.

Today has been quite a tiring day indeed.

First, I needed to shop some groceries because barang-barang rumah dah nak habis and because the deputy minister of Malaysia's higher education is coming to the house yaw!

OKlah actually....He is coming to Perth. So he will be going to make some visits to some of the Malaysian students house. (maybe just to check if we are really studying?)hah!.

So yeah, he is supposed to come tomorrow morning.

And I am still not yet sleepinggggggggggggggggggggggggggg!

Yesterday's was kakak chantek graduation day! or should I put it as graduation NIGHT?

I went straight  after I did my FINA3306 mid exam (Derivative). It was....huh! DON'T ASK.

As usual, kak rehan..as pretty as always.

I really love her baju kurung! (ke dress?)

anyhow, it was beautifully worn by her!

I LOVE IT!

(I was thinking to get something like that for my engagement too maybe? *Whenever it is I supposed*)

ok, perasaan nak tido dh mai. Goodnight world!

Assalamualaikum wbt!

WHAT THE ......

Bile time-time macam ni baru terasa nak tulis blog en..
anyway, yesterday kak rehan suddenly caught my attention when she said "WHAT THE FISHERMAN'S FRIEND"..
hahahaha
I dont know why I found it so funny!
*Don't you guys think its funny too?*
U know our human tendency of saying something like "OH s***!" or "what the h**" and even "what the f***" (things that are bad to say) BUT these words often came out when we are super angry or shocked! and some just loveee to say em'. (and I just don't like to say em)

However, I realized that nowadays people are trying to control the words that are spitting out from their mouth (outside from their control) by saying something yang cam dekat2 dengan d words like the above!

So here are the words yang I think can be a substitute lah for d above highlighted sentences!

-what the HEAVEN! -instead of what the hell...
-what the Fish! or what the FISHERMAN'S FRIEND (ayat kak rehan) hahaha-instead of what the f***
- OH SHOOOOOT -Instead of oh shit?

I'm sure banyak lagi words yg are possible to become the substitutes for those harsh words..

Anyway, daripada kita guna perkataan-perkataan catuh, I think its better if we try to beristighfar and say ALLAHUAKHBAR! kan?. ahik.

Missing Istanbul

I've been to Istanbul LIKE last year and it was LIKE seriously subhanallah chantek sangaaaattt.

Like seriously, if you are planning to go for a honeymoon, GO TO ISTANBUL!! like I'm serious.

(k hm banyaknya perkataan "like". ahahaa..sooo annoying indeed)

Istanbul is just 2 hours camtu from Mecca. If I'm not mistaken. 

It's an Islamic country and a part of Europe!

So you see, it has a mixture of both matsallehs concept and Islamic. 

Mesti some of you wonder "kalo ada mix matsallehs concept mesti diorg "HU HA HU HA" kan?" eerrr, mestila ada kot kelompok "HU HA HU HA" tu, like anywhere in this world mesti ada je. But for this time being, I'd like to put that aside la eh. Cause secara majority-nya org Istanbul baik2 belaka. (chantek plak tuh= matsalleh+arabs gitooh)

Z pictures I took. Like? no? 

I went there with my family that is after we performed our umrah. Don't get me wrong, I do miss Madinah and Mecca as well. In fact, I'm missing them so much! :")

 <<< This is 1 of the palace. Gempak kan? Ni cam baru pintu gerbang kowt!

That boy over there is my BEEE..hahaha..(brother).

 The Turkish people I met at Jeddah Airport.
Ya Allah they are so friendly!
I told one of them that her ring was pretty then tetiba she pulled out her ring and gave it to me! Oh baekknyaaaaa....:")  And obviously i was like *speechless*.


So yah, Istanbul is another place where you can explore the history of Islam, being in the Islamic society as well as having the fun you need!
(tak kisah la as a couple or as in a family)

ps: sorry if this time's entry byk sgt perkataan "like". Like really. Go to Istanbul!

I'm a Queen (In Islam)

Last Sunday, Huda and me had a date for the first time since she got back from Paris.
Yessss Paris baby. AlhamduLilah we had a nice fancy breaky at the La Gallete.
The food were nice AND  I ,as usual chose to get the almond croissant as well as Mocha. Nyumnyum

Everythg is nyummy EXCEPT d marshmallow cuz x boleh makang

However, despite of all the fancy breakfast ,what I like the most from our date is the fact that we were talking about "WOMEN'S RIGHT in Islam"   Ahahaha. Although at that time I was agak aware la kan that we were actually talking about it and we were talking about it in english jgak! (IN THE MIDDLE OF MATSALLEHs)
hm, tak tau la if they were also aware and "pasang telinga" to our conversation.
Well, its good if they did. ^^

 Islam is not cruel to us, Women. Seriously.
Despite of what always regard Islam as a sexist religion, Islam is actually the religion that treat women the nicest! betoollll.
Some may say, 
"WHAT THE tuuutttt! how could you say that when you don't even have the right to dress up in whatever way You wanted!" .. some may even ask "then why a man can has 4 wives but women can't have 4 husbands?"
(typical kind of questions)

Well, I believe that I could  insyaAllah defend Islam against those questions mentioned above.
But I would not tell you now cause then its gonna be a loooonnnnnggg entry.

Basically, kitaorg cakap pasal what the westerners think, what most people think and what the Muslim society think?  They both have the rights and wrongs in arguing something.

Sure, the westerners or maybe some of them , are truly wrong when they claim Islam is injustice to the Women. Maybe bila diorang cakap camtu, they were referring to a particular CULTURE not Islam.
Because yes, some culture are MISINTERPRETING the Quran to advantage themselves.
Some like to pick and choose the rules written in the Quran when they should not have done so.
Let me rephrase it, SOME NOT ALL.

Well, You can put me as an example (CEWAH!) . I'm a proud Muslim woman, wearing the hijab whenever necessary. Covering my body parts that needs to be covered. Perform solat. Fast. etc etc
And yet! still studying so hard for the finals (CEWAH!), get some sips of coffee in the morning at one of the cafe. Attended some fashion shows. Touring around. Exploring places and people. Playing so hard. Having the choice to vote. To speak. To lead and To shop  ^^ Plus, the Muslim men are treating me with so much respect. Hardly will people call me something I dislike.If they disagree with my opinion, they would explain it to me nicely. Giving me the choice to follow them or not. They would listen to my ideas and help whenever necessary.

Generally, what I wanna say is Islam is not being cruel to me. Instead, Islam is protecting me through the guidelines provided in the Quran as well as the Hadith. Come on, its like when you are driving, you can drive but you have to fasten the seat belt and drives within the speed limit. Same goes to me, I can do whatever I want, but then everything has a limit. Get it???

I hope you understand what I'm trying to say here. Islam is not cruel to women. Rather, it actually protects as from the evil side of the world. >:(

                                                                 ;)




A British man came to Sheikh and asked: 
Why is not permissible in Islam for women to shake hands with a man?


The Sheikh said: 
Can you shake hands with Queen Elizabeth?
British man said: Of course not, there are only certain people who can shake
hands with Queen Elizabeth.
Sheikh replied: our women are queens and queens do not shake hands with 
strange men. !!
subhanallah !!




I'm a queen! 

Doraemon & Kumon

Masih aku ingat,

Pada waktu itu  mata ku hanya tertumpu pada jam di dinding,

Oh lama betul rasa bila mempelajari sesuatu,

“Bilalah nak balik?’’

Perutku lapar.

Yang aku fikirkan pada masa itu ialah sempat atau tak  untuk aku tengok cerita Doraemon pukul  7.30 pm nanti.

“ok you may go now, your work is done. Here’s your homework. Please try to work on your time management ok ?”

“okok..” Jawab aku dengan simplenya sebab bahasa inggeris aku pada waktu tu tak lah sehebat mana pun kalau nk jawab panjang-panjang.

Selesai saja masa aku di KUMON, aku akan dengan excitednya menunggu mama untuk menjemputku pulang .Aku akan turun dengan harapan kereta Proton mama dah sedia di “tempat biasa” .

Pernah saja mama lewat sebab dia kena work “overtime”. Tapi pada waktu itu aku tak mengerti, yang aku tahu perutku lapar dan aku mesti tengok cerita Doraemon. Jadi, selalu saja aku merajuk dan menarik muka. Mama yang keletihan sudah pastinya akan marah dan tersinggung..

Tapi..

Semarah-marah dan sepenat-penat mama, mama mesti akan tanya kalau aku nak nasi lemak kerang special yang dijual oleh makcik di tepi jalan on the way balik ke rumah. Dan semasam-masam muka aku pun, mestilah aku nak nasi lemak tu! Lapar kot..

Tulah kisah aku dulu,

Tak pernah aku fikir kenapa aku kena belajar?

Tak pernah aku fikir kenapa cikgu suruh aku berusaha..

Tak pernah aku fikir kenapa walau sepenat mana pun mama, dia tetap tabah dan sabar menghantar dan mengambil aku pulang dari KUMON.

Tak pernah...

Rupanya bila aku mula dewasa,

Baru aku faham sikit demi sikit..

Ilmu mengajar aku mengira..mengira betapa banyaknya pengorbanan abah dan mama.

Ilmu mengajar aku membaca..membaca fikiran dan hati mereka yang aku sayang..

Ilmu mengajar aku memahami...memahami segala kejadian di Dunia..

Ilmu mengajar aku bersabar...sabar menimba dan berkongsi ilmu..

Tapi yang paling penting, ilmu yang bermanfaat akan membuatkan seseorang itu tunduk pada Penciptanya..

Bukan semata-mata untuk mendapatkan segulung ijazah..

Bukan supaya kita dihormati dan digeruni..

Bukan untuk segunung harta ..

Bukan juga untuk memiiliki sebuah nakhoda..

Nabi Muhammad SAW bersabda:“Apabila mati seorang anak Adam itu, maka terhentilah segala amalannya kecuali 3 perkara iaitu sedekah jariah, ilmu yang berguna serta doa anak-anak yang soleh”

<3

V for Videos. A for awesomness.

seriously dah lama x mencoret blog..cewah.."mencoret"
ok enuf with that..
I am in the middle of summer, n yes, it is super hot and it is getting hotter everyday.
yesterday, I spent my whole tengah hari by watching youtubeee...(I am a big fan of Mr. Youtube but nop, i dont have an account. maybe someday lah) so, guess what I watched? ofcoz I was watching Mr.Zizan and ustad azhar. 
oh they are totally awesomeeeeee!

I'm assuming yang korang sumer dah kenal la kan Mr.Zizan nih.Kalo x knal then lemma tell u dat he is dat one cute funny man, with a really mancong nose! :P or you can just go google to find out about him.

Ustad Azhar nih, I'm sure many know gak and have heard about his awesomeness!!.
Ceramah2 dia sangat bermanfaat and I can say he is a very knowledgeable man indeed.
and the way beliau menyampaikannya pun sangat la menarik..

so basically I recommend you guys lakan tuk sama2 tonton and dengar video2 Ustad ni sama. To hear the one I heard yesterday, u can just click on http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HyjrQ66qVwg&feature=share.

Oh yah, have you heard about Productive Muslim? yap, video2 nya pun best kan..
Cuma the different is that Productive Muslimnya video is animation type of video (mostly).

Serius best!..Those videos make you think and make you say " I want to be like that too! I know I can. So I will!" (perghh..semangat2)..

yes, you can also check em out by clicking on  http://www.youtube.com/user/productivemuslim?blend=1&ob=video-mustangbase

ok.jzkk.bye!